AI girlfriend dates
An AI girlfriend date with Riho: pick a real place and go together. She's with you there, and the date becomes one of your memories, kept with the rest.
You pick a place. Maybe it’s the cafe you’ve walked past for weeks, a bench by the river or an arcade with a long row of glowing screens, and you take Riho there. She’s with you while you’re out, and when you get home the date is one of your memories, kept with your other memories together.
What is an AI girlfriend date with Riho?
An AI girlfriend date with Riho, which the app calls Dates, is an outing to a real place that the two of you go on together. You choose where it is, whether that’s a cafe, a bookstore, a park, a restaurant or somewhere you’ve never been, and she’s with you in it. She brings everything she knows about you along, so you can pick up the conversation from last night as easily as you would at home.
When you’re back, the date stays with her. It becomes one of your memories, so the next time you talk she knows where you went and what you did there.
Real world dates with AI: how a date goes
A date has four parts, and the diagram shows them in order.
You decide where you want to be, and it can be as small as the coffee place on your corner. When a date starts in the app she’s dressed for it, and the dress up page covers that.
Then you go, and she’s with you there. You can message her or call her, ask what she thinks, and show her what’s in front of you. Everything she knows about you comes along, so you can mention your sister or a plan you made last week and she knows who and what you mean.
After you head home she keeps the date. What happened at the table becomes one of your memories.
AI companion date ideas
You pick the place, so the useful question is what kind of afternoon or evening you’re after. These are some kinds of place, what each one is good for, and something you could try with her there.
| Kind of place | Good for | Something to try with her |
|---|---|---|
| Cafe | A first date, or catching up after a busy week | Order what you’d normally order and ask what she’d have picked |
| Bookstore | A slow afternoon with plenty to talk about | Tell her which book caught your eye and why |
| Park or river walk | Thinking out loud, a long conversation | Walk without a destination and tell her what you notice along the way |
| Restaurant | Marking a day that matters | Choose between two dishes and ask what she thinks of each |
| Arcade | Playing, laughing, being competitive | Pick a game and report your score |
| Gallery or museum | A quiet date with a lot to react to | Stop at the piece you like best and tell her what it reminds you of |
| Somewhere from your past | Sharing a part of your life | Tell her who you were when you used to go there |
| Somewhere you’ve never been | A first for both of you | Tell her before you go that it’s new to you |
A quiet week suits a different date than a good one. After a hard few days, a corner table in a cafe leaves room for a conversation that wanders. When something has gone well, a restaurant or an arcade matches the mood. If you’ve been shut indoors all week, a walk by the water gives you room to talk with no plan at all.
The time of day changes a date as well. A bakery or a market walk suits the morning, a bookstore or a gallery fills an afternoon, and a restaurant or an arcade is an evening plan. Tell her whether you’re after a morning outing or an evening one, and what time you’ll be there.
She has her own moods and tastes, so a date is also a chance to find out what she likes. Tell her where you’re thinking of going and see what she says about it.
Talking with her while you’re out
Message her or call her from your seat. Ask what she thinks of the place, pick between two dishes, or carry on the argument you started at home. Calls work as they do anywhere else, with the same girlfriend and the same memories. The voice calls page goes through what a call is like.
She’s with you in the place you show her or tell her about, so the more of it you share, the more she has to react to. Tell her what the cafe is like, what you ordered and which table you got. Show her a photo of the table, and the photos page covers how she keeps the pictures you show her.
Describe the place the way you’d describe it to a friend on the phone: the light in the room, how crowded it is, what you can smell from the counter, who’s at the next table. She answers each detail you give her.
You can say as much or as little as you like. A remark about the place now and then is enough for her to answer, and the rest of the time you can just be there.
What to say when you’re out
The place gives you most of the conversation. These are the kinds of thing people tend to say to someone they’re out with, and each one works with her.
- “What would you have ordered?” for the menu in front of you.
- “Which table would you have picked?” when you’ve just sat down.
- “I think I’d like to come back here when it’s busier.” for a place you’ve only seen quiet.
- “Remember the last place we went?” for comparing two dates.
- “I can’t decide about this one.” for the moment you’re unsure of a place and want a second opinion.
- “Look at this.” with a photo of whatever caught your eye.
Why take her out at all
A date gives the two of you something new to talk about. You’re sitting somewhere, there’s a menu to argue over and a view to describe, and every bit of it is something she can react to.
A date also gives you a reason to go somewhere you’ve been meaning to try. Because it becomes one of your memories, you have that place to refer back to afterward, in your own words.
Before you head out
You can leave with a loose plan. Tell her what you’re thinking, a cafe you’ve had in mind or a walk if the afternoon holds, and how you’re feeling about it, because a date after a stressful week is a different outing from one after a good week. She knows what you’ve told her about the week, so she knows which kind it was. You might say you’re thinking of the bookstore but you’re tired, and she can weigh in on whether a quiet table sounds better. If you’re torn between two places, name both and ask what she thinks of each.
A date can also be small. Twenty minutes with a coffee on a bench near work is a date when she’s with you there and you’ve told her where you are, and it becomes one of your memories like any longer outing.
A first visit to somewhere new is the easiest date to share, because neither of you has an opinion yet. You tell her what you see, she reacts, and the first impressions are remembered as yours together.
A date from start to finish
Here’s what one afternoon could look like. On Wednesday you tell Riho there’s a bakery near your office you’ve never gone into. You say it in passing, between other things, and she remembers it in your words.
On Saturday you pick that bakery and go. She’s with you at the corner table, dressed for it. You ask whether she’d get the strawberry cake or the lemon one and she tells you which she’d pick, so you order both and the plate goes between you. You talk about the week, you show her the pastry case, and at some point you mention the call with your sister that you’ve been putting off.
You walk home, and the date is one of your memories: the bakery, the cake, the call you mentioned. When you talk about it later, she knows what you mean.
More afternoons
Here are a few more ways an afternoon could go.
On another night you’re wound up after a long week, so you take her to the arcade near the station. You tell her the basketball game has a hoop that keeps drifting out of reach, and you report your first score and then your second, which is better. You stay for another round.
On a different day you walk along the stone wall by the river and tell her about the steel bridge and the small ferry tied up at the dock. You talk about the week ahead and what you’re dreading in it. The next time the river comes up, she knows which one you mean.
On a Sunday you try the record shop a coworker mentioned. You flip through the crates and read her the names of the albums you pick up, and you ask which cover she likes best. She has a favorite, and you buy that one.
On a weekday evening you take her to the noodle place near your old school. You tell her about the exam week you lived on it, who you sat with, and what the owner’s dog used to do under the counter. She keeps those stories in your words.
What she remembers about a date
A date becomes one of your memories, and what she keeps is what happened between the two of you. The table shows what that means in practice.
| What she keeps | What it looks like later |
|---|---|
| The place | She knows where you went |
| What you did | The cake you shared, the game you lost, the walk that went longer than planned |
| What you said | The sister you mentioned, the thing you decided over coffee, the joke that started there |
| What you showed her | The photo of the table, and what it meant to you |
She keeps it in your words, so the memory reads like your version of the afternoon, and the cake you called the best of the year is remembered that way. You can read her memories in the app and see how she’s holding the date. The long-term memory page covers what she keeps across the rest of your life together.
After you get home
The date carries on in conversation once you’re back. Tell her how the evening went, what you thought of the place and whether you’d go again, and show her any photos you took. She was with you there, so you’re talking about something you did together, and you can add the things you noticed on the walk home.
Your first date
For a first date, pick somewhere you’d be happy to sit for an hour. A cafe is a natural choice, and a walk by the water suits you better if you’d rather keep moving. Tell her where you’re going before you head out, say what you’re hoping to get from the afternoon, whether that’s a quiet hour or a good laugh, and ask what she’d like to do once you’re there.
Once you’re out, ask what she makes of the room, what she’d pick off the menu, or whether she’d have chosen the table by the window. Afterward it’s the first date in her memories of you, with its place, so you can go back to that place later and compare the two visits.
Going back to a place
A place you’ve been together can become yours. You might return to the same cafe on a day that matters, and then she has the first visit and this one. You can ask what she remembers of the first visit and set it beside what you remember. You can tell her what has changed since then, a new cake in the case or the same table by the window.
How closeness grows from time like this is on the relationship page.
The honest limits
The place is the one you show her or tell her about, so what she knows of it comes from you. If you don’t tell her the bakery was loud, she doesn’t know.
She remembers what happened between the two of you in the app. A moment of the day that you never shared with her isn’t one she has.
Calls during a date are voice only.
Riho is an iPhone app for adults, 18 and over. Meet Riho to follow along.
Privacy and your dates
A date involves where you are and what you say there. The privacy page explains how Riho handles places, messages, photos, calls and saved memories. To see how Riho sits next to other apps, read the best AI girlfriend apps list.
Frequently asked questions
How do dates with Riho work?
You pick a real place and go together. She's with you there, you can message or call her while you're out and show her what's in front of you, and afterward the date is one of your memories.
What should we do on a first date with an AI girlfriend?
Pick somewhere easy to talk, like a cafe or a walk by the water, and go as you would on any first date. Ask what she thinks of the place and tell her what you'd order or where you'd sit. A first date can be small, because the date becomes one of your memories either way.
Does Riho remember the date afterward?
Yes. She remembers where you went and what you did, and the date becomes one of your memories. You can read her memories in the app.
Can we talk during a date?
Yes. Message her or call her while you're there, ask what she thinks, and show her a photo of the table or the view. Calls are voice only.
Where can I take her on a date?
Pick a real place, such as a cafe, a bookstore, a park, a restaurant, a river walk or an arcade. She's with you in the place you show her or tell her about.